Great that you have start taking steps towards GAL. Good mindset is to focus only to things what you can control (cannot control W, she does what she does) and develop yourself into a Man that if she goes, it´s her loss. You need to become a seller, not a buyer. That´s my precept anyways, some days easier to execute, some days harder. That´s actually the idea behind my pseudonym "GettinThere" as well - I´m on a journey in making a good life for myself, either with my WAW or by myself. Getting there, step by step.
I myself have been lurker here for few months now, but decided to register in just because of you. I´m also from Finland and if you want to discuss with a guy in Finnish who is experiencing similar situation just PM me and we´ll throw couple of emails or schedule a call.
Also, I want to use this opportunity to give credits to all great people at this forum who are struggling with personal challenges and taking time to help others simultaneously. You possess great wisdom, thank you for sharing that.
