Apothem, Being here for almost 11months when a W/H suddenly say ILYBNILWY is because they met someone and if they work usually the om or ow is a co-worker. And trust me you going want to contact higher up your gonna wanna go to the job and confront them both your going want to contact his wife... your going want to do alot of things all I can say is.
No No No No... don't do anything don't give her the best of you. Protect yourself and your S and financially. You Already know the worse part she having an Affair now is time for you to say I won't be option B.
A DAY AT A day at a time
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9