New LBS - need advice, part deux

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So I identified the man she's having an affair with. It's one of the managers at her work, he's 43 years old and married. My wife told me a story where there were rumors of a relationship involving him and one of the younger girls circulating last year or so.

She brought it up a few months ago because she said a rumor started going around her store several months ago that my wife was his girlfriend because they always talked at work, etc. At that time, I was none the wiser.

She said she had to stop the rumors so their jobs would be secure. Nothing back then clicked, but it all makes sense now. I spent a considerable amount of time talking to my mom tonight who offered great advice on moving forward.

I'm going to continue GAL and my 180s and focusing on myself and my son. This does not alter my plan forward, other than the fact I will be filing for divorce ASAP to minimize any potential loss of property, etc.