Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 12, D on hold

[marina7]

Paysara,
As you know your journey just started and won't be easy. I say it all the time this has been one of my toughest battle I have been fighting and am going on 11 months and my battle is starting as I start court this week.

Your H sounds like my W in the beginning she at first said to me there's a condo where am at we can be like neighbors in my head I was like WTF. and as she said it, it was like it was all plan and W just said it like we where Best friend I just listen how W said we can both walk kids to bus stop they can just walk over and we all be happy again I had this blank look in my face. I was still in shock as W laid it all out.

And ask me how is it going now. Lol nothing like W said or wanted she won't even co parent infact W said she never wanted the last two kids. Am hoping that never happens to you but always prepare for the worse our W/H are gone there story constantly change there plans change is like riding a death rollercoaster you just don't know what is next or what are their next move are. All you have control of is you and kids now. I know we at bd are numb is like getting hit by a semi truck and you just lost your H. Speaking for me this is how I kept my insanity because literally W after 3 days of family Vacation she says am unhappy, ILYBNILWY, to I just sign a lease moving out tomorrow. I honestly lost my other half my kids lost there mom. I say it all the time is like one day we where driving and head on semi truck struck us and I lost everything I knew only my kids and I survived. Because to me my W died my w is gone I honestly don't think W will ever snap out of it.

So survive this the way you can cope with it. We all have out own way to cope. But don't forget about yourself or kids. Your kids will need you more than ever this will be your toughest battle but you will survive.

Protect yourself and kids mentally and financially and we all know this don't believe anything your H says because he right now only cares about him. Hang in there.

A day at a time sweety. The sun will shine again.