Hey AP, thanks for stopping by.

The sorting out of the loft went okay. It was a bit awkward at first when he arrived but we both started to relax a bit as the day went on. We went through a lot of stuff, both reminiscing about purchases that we made together and we had a few laughs especially when we found a bag of wool and knitting needles which was a reminder of my disastrous attempt at knitting!

When H was leaving I think he might have momentarily forgot about the sitch as he gave me a kiss on the lips and a hug! Although it was still a little awkward!

He said he would come back to take some rubbish down to the recycling centre but after a week of not hearing anything from him, D and I decided to take it down ourselves. So far not another peep from him. Back in the tunnel he goes!!

For Valentnes, D bought me a lovely card and I bought her some heart shaped chocolate lollipops. I am doing dry February so no alcohol for me and I have given up chocolate, cake, sweets and puddings for Lent! I'm a real sucker for punishment!!

Hope all is well with you and my other fellow DBers! Happy Monday all!!


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')