Joseph9, I understand when you say you do it for yourself. Because at the end we are the better person I have also been ask those questions why am I still nice, or I told W if she needed my truck on snow days is hers. I honestly didn't do it for her to see we she get back together I did it because this is me I will give my shirt to someone who needs it. One thing I told myself was I won't let W change me to be a bitter person or hateful I will keep being me. The person I know I am.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9