Then I must read these books ten times over and do what they tell me to do. Nothing will change unless I don't change. Now I say enough is enough. Now I take time for me. I have to be a little selfish if I want my kids to have the greatest dad ever. Now it is time to work on me. Forget about W and MR and OM. When I'm done with me, I'm the best me there will ever be.

Somehow I'm a little hyped now...but now is the time.

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.