The hardest rule for me to follow will be:

10. Do not spy on spouse by checking emails, phone bills, etc. (Not good for you and will make matters worse.)

I am a lifelong IT guy and have multiple ways to check up on her even if she doesn't want me to. Any thoughts on how to best stop being obsessed with snooping/spying?


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018