I went and reread Sandi's 37 rules. I also read her first LBH thread with the statements about her current state of mind. I need to keep reminding myself of all of that.

I decided this morning to begin to detach. Brought my work out clothes to go to the company gym after work. Am going to GAL, stay busy. Stay alert and attentive when home but not overtly talkative or requiring her attention. All of what Sandi says to do.

Ironically, she a few minutes ago began texting me. Nonstop for several minutes. I answered her questions but tried to remain cool and detached. It was almost 2 to 1 her texts to my responses. Including a "How is your day going?" She has not asked me that in text in months!! Could she already be detecting my detachment after just one morning?!?

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018