I don't have DR book yet. It has to come snail mail... :-( but I've read tons of other books in the last 2 months.
How do I handle - "what are you doing?" when he asks? I don't want to be rude.
AND - when I'm gone he texts. This last time he couldn't even give me a moment to respond before he was calling and asking "X" that he just texted.
Oh - and I wouldn't get my husbands name tattoed. The only reason I commented about if it was really important because I have learned in my marriage that he was hurt that I did not take his name. His final comment on the tattoo thing was he didn't like his last name and he was thinking of changing it... WHAT??? I didn't pursue.
I know I'm in denial but I'm trying to keep PMA.
I also think he is very accommodating and trying to be involved so that we split amicably or somehow it washes away his guilt???
When I was around this weekend I did notice he was on his phone A LOT LESS!!!! than he has been. Its like he has been glued to it 24/7 but I didn't get that this weekend.
However, he is back to work and reminded what he doesn't like about life with me. No texts last night or this am. I haven't texted.
I know I have to step away to pull him back to him but the minute he starts to show interest - I'm right there... How do you handle a husband that wants to know what you are doing???
