I know you are right. Detaching is hard. No matter where I am I can smell her, stumble on her shoes etcetc(I can't GAL all the time) That's why I need to get rid of this f-ing house. Start my own life. Be a better me. One that nobody thought could even exist anymore.

Don't say "why the pain". Don't say "why me". Say "try me"!


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.