Thanks sandi2 for the the advice.

Had an interesting day yesterday. W decided to take the kids to watch me play hockey, then they wanted to go out to a restaurant afterwards. I said okay as it’s kind of like family time activities. Afterwards played some games as a family which was nice. Then W is chatting to me about how she’d like to go away on vacation again. Even through out the idea of going any living in California together. She doesn’t like winter and says she just wants to go somewhere new and start over. I did not engage further as I don’t know what she’s up to or just a moment to fantasize or try and get a reaction out of me.


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Married: 12 Together: 14
Me:41 W:42
S:11 S:8
Bomb dropped 2/2014
I moved out 5/2014
No formal separation
Discovered A: 1/2018