So that brings me to the question is this more MLC/other personal/age crisis than WW?
If I told you it was MLC would it make you feel better? I think many people here feel if they can label it then they can understand it.
Doesn't change anything. If you want your W back show her you are done with her BS cheating (don't sugar coat it she cheated) ways and start assembling a life that is fuching awesome for you and your kids. Then maybe in the future she earns another chance to be with you.
You are suffering right now because you are not able to accept the reality of your situation.
