You need to step back and take a look at what your H is doing here, you need to win back the power in your life! This person is literally walking all over you without any consequences and knows you'll be there just in case things go south with him.
Take control off him and concentrate on you, you can only look after you.
What would be a 180 in your R? I see a person who's catering for his every need stop that and start to enjoy yourself and monitor his actions. I understand how scary this can be < but this is him having the power and control which is keeping you where he wants you. Come on don't allow him to ruin your life whilst he waits to see if there's something out there better...
Nothing's better than you right! Let him feel this by doing DR if only for a while it can't get that much worse than slowly loosing your own identity.
Be strong.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
