So I got up and semi-dressed. Ran around the house getting some cooking going, cleaning the kitchen and laundry in just a t-shirt and sexy undies.
Yup - he tried NOT to notice but eventually came flirting. It didn't lead to anything but it was nice to have his attention.
Eventually got dressed. Look nice. Hair, make-up, jewelry and perfume. Told him I had to stop by the office to take care of couple of patients that wouldn't take long and then I was going for a drive.
He asked where. I said I didn't know. Just wanted to get out. I did not invite him. He asked again where I was going and had a real puzzled look. I said I needed to get out for a bit.
In my head that I did not say to him is 1) I'm not comfortable telling you right now where I am going because I don't want to be judged and 2) He needs down time to relax and I don't want to seem like I'm hovering because I will. I will bake cupcakes or something and offer them to him, etc. I just want him to focus on himself.
He then said "remember driving around costs gas". I said okay. I'm not getting baited into argument. He runs errands all the time in a truck that gets 12mi/gal and doesn't ever tell me he isn't going to do something cause it cost too much gas. I let it go - its not going to be a dig that I will respond to today. :-)
I'm trying to think and remain positive but I know I am only getting breadcrumbs and I am reading too much into them. :-(
