I know what I'm going to get as answers from this...
What if W is telling the truth? What if she had adopted to being something she is not b/c she assumed I wanted her to be something else? And then she just got fed up to it? I really do think the same that there was always that little something missing. What if it was the fact that she wasn't what she really is? Last summer when she was more "her real self", I was happier than ever, I felt like I fell in love with her again. That is the hardest part.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.