New LBS - need advice, part deux

[joejoe1]

Apothem,

Like Marina7 said the best thing you can do now is protect your child and work on getting healthy. LBS have become sick emotionally because of BD and learning of an A.

While/when we work on ourselves we gain strength and can take logical approaches to our sitches.

I was listening to TD Jakes one day and he said GOD won't take away the pain. We can ask all we want, but the pain is a remainder, so we remember never to go down those roads again. The only way to lessen the pain and eventually heal from the pain is thru the pain.

He also said, life is full of messes, and to get to the progress we must go thru the process. Let the process work for you. It's no way around it. Pick your head up, open your chess and put one foot in front the other and take it one day at a time.

Trying to predict tomorrow is fruitless and worrying about yesterday is too painful, enjoy the present because it's a gift.

The one thing about BD is we as LBS get a lot of help and learn a lot about ourselves and learn we are not alone. We develop habits that Will last us a lifetime.

Onward and forward.