How are you supposed to deal with this? I think it's something like the pursuit and distance dance. So today is fourth day of barely any contact, zero texts and following the rules to the letter. I take the boys out to the park and we have a great time. She's at home and texts me a song that she thought I might like and signs off with a kiss. Odd, first text for 4 days.
When I get back, she looks upset and asks to chat. There are lots of tears, saying she feels ostracized and that she feels left out with all the stuff I've been doing with the kids (they've had a week off school). She doesn't like the way I'm behaving (not being Mr nice guy/doormat). I don't flinch and she tells me to leave the room. It was hard to see her so upset, but she had this coming, right?
I take it I should continue on the path I've chosen. I'm feeling better about myself and enjoying quality time with the boys! Seems like she was having a pity party, woe is me etc.
Married 9, Together 16 M:39, W:41, S:11, S:7 BD: 12/3/2017 In house sep: 1/7/2018 EA: March 2017 (ongoing), PA: Yes ______________________________ Attempting to defy gravity, by falling up