Best wishesGordie. Without judging I would just say you have stepped back into limboland, one where W has taken the pressure off herself.

Go with your decision, but in a fixed amount of time, check if ye are any closer to where you want to be. Don't lose sight of that.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together