Was he fully divorced when the 2 of you got together?
What is their custody arrangememt?
The things you are describing about your self dont make you controlling or a bad wife. They make you human. (Not many wives would allow an animal head in their home lol. ) He is gaslighting, gaslighting, gaslighting. Becausw he is not committed.
The things your husbamd said about his ex are things my ex would have said about me (not the sleeping) your husband was waiting for her to go back to work to leave her instead of working on their marriage? Huge red flag.
No court in the world would give a mom that slept 18 hours a day primary custody
My ex paints the same picture to everyone. Especially regarding custody. Truth is he didnt want it. He explains supervised nightine visitations as "i agreed to it so my ex wife would compromise" no one knows that he refused drug testing and he had mysterious bank withdrawals of 88 dollars per month in bad neighborhoods. He is clean cut, humble, quiet, and presents a picture of someone abused by a nagging, lazy, controling ex.
Hes painting this picture of you only thing is you are believing it.
