You are always spot on with your suggestions so thank you!!! I need to put down the emotional cigarettes and need to stop focusing on his stuff. It is difficult however and it takes a lot out of me.
When you say I need to take action what do you mean? What would you suggest?
I spoke to my DB coach Chuck today which was great today. My WAH is moving some stuff out of the house tomorrow to move to his new place. His suggestions where to either help him move or if I emotionally could not do it, then let him know that and just do other things.