Hi reframe, you're not wrong about snooping, it's like an addiction for me. Checking phone records, Instagram, coat pockets, handbag...I only find pain when I do it. What's that about?! I've got to tell myself it's not worth it.
I'm sure it's about us trying to find a crumb to be hopeful about. I've occasionally found small hints that she's considering working on the MR. Those are way less common that signs of her planning for a new life - but it's enough to keep us coming back.
Super easy (intellectually) to say we just need to stop it. Way harder emotionally to actually do it.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18
