Despite the signals that the wife doesn't know what she wants, all signs still point to separation and D.
My own demons keep wanting to tell me this is my fault. Snooping is the scab I keep picking at, probably hoping to find something to be hopeful about, but instead finding more to be despondent about.
The other part of me just wants to get it over with.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18