J...I've been doing the same. And I thought I was doing well. Then some crumbs were thrown to my feet like sandi pointed out and I was on my knees right away. Should of seen that coming. I never ask anything about her plans etc...and our comm has only been about kids, finances and other practical things that need to be solved. And that's where I'm going back. I need to remind me about rule no. 37...
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.