P....your not stupid, this isn't easy. Letting your W go is strength. Implement and follow the rules ASAP. Hold the line, don't waiver. I only interact with my W if it is kid or finance related and it is generally via email or text. Very rarely do I ever ask who, what, where, when, why questions and I do not talk about us. When we do interact I am nice, polite and friendly. I am not rude, short, etc.

This is how you can show her you are moving on.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018