Yes! 2018 is starting of A-OK so far. Been a whirl wind actually!! Trying to check off some of those goals... I'm getting there! I think I need to pick it back up a bit though...I've been slacking.
I last saw EX (that is weird to type after typing WW for so long!) on x-mas for a few minutes. Our contact is few and far between now. I never have the urge to contact her. She contacted me about taxes since this is the first time we would be filing seperatly. Somehow she ended up owing close to $2k. whoops! I guess that was because I was taking most of the tax burden when we were married. I'm not sure.
I hardly think of her. The only time I find myself drifting back is when I am throwing myself a mini pity party. Obviously things ended poorly but I think there was a lot of good in our relationship too. I still think we could have had something great if she didn't go to loony town every few years... we had a lot of the same interests. But I know this is a cycle that will not end so I have let it go. It is freeing actually!! She dominated my life for 20 years! Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and be a fly on the wall in her brain... just to see how she was processing things.
The odd thing is I have no desire to date... zero. Is that normal? I mean it has been 2.5 years! I poke around the dating websites and it seems like 95% of the woman are the same. Living in a tiny town isn't helping there. My personality is pretty laid back and chill. So I am not sure if that would be considered a negative early on in dating??? hmph! Maybe I need to find a mid 30's dating advice forum.. HA!
Felon pops up every now and again to bother me. I don't know what the deal is with that guy. I literally don't care one bit about him. Might just have to bite the bullet and have a chat with him next time.
