And sandi is probably right about the motive why she is going. She just wants her motives for D to be confirmed. But isn't it best if I tell her in presence of a marriage counsler that this is it. Since I already promised to go it would be inconsistent to back down.
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.