And sandi is probably right about the motive why she is going. She just wants her motives for D to be confirmed. But isn't it best if I tell her in presence of a marriage counsler that this is it. Since I already promised to go it would be inconsistent to back down.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.