Thanks for the feedback on the schedule issue.

I stood in front of a judge today, to present the signed mediation agreement and request a date for the D decree to be signed by the judge and filed with the court. It was a small room with only me, my L, and the judge. The judge and my L asked me a series of questions. They asked if I believed the M could be repaired if we attended MC, and I said no. A date was set for next week.

At the end, the judge said, "Mr. Holding, your D is granted".

I wasn't expecting that.

I walked to my car afterwards. I noticed I wasn't upset. I had a song stuck in my head from earlier that morning. I drove to work and worked a normal day.

Maybe I'm in shock or it hasn't hit me yet, but I'm not feeling much.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.