I stood in front of a judge today, to present the signed mediation agreement and request a date for the D decree to be signed by the judge and filed with the court. It was a small room with only me, my L, and the judge. The judge and my L asked me a series of questions. They asked if I believed the M could be repaired if we attended MC, and I said no. A date was set for next week.
At the end, the judge said, "Mr. Holding, your D is granted".
I wasn't expecting that.
I walked to my car afterwards. I noticed I wasn't upset. I had a song stuck in my head from earlier that morning. I drove to work and worked a normal day.
Maybe I'm in shock or it hasn't hit me yet, but I'm not feeling much.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18