Question, Does she have legal guardian did she adopt him, Prepare yourself my friend your W will say, you force me on him, or I didn't have a choice or option she will blame everyone but herself. I remember my therapist said the same thing I told W you tell them you no longer want to be there mom btw W send me an email stating she didn't want s8 and d9 so that email is printed and out away in the black box. And W said So you don't want me in there life remember you said it and storm out once again she turned it around and played the victim. Is crazy that our W makes us feel like we losing our marbles. They have a way to turn things around.
One thing my therapist said. We as the other parent don't have to say much kids are very smart he will figure it out on his own as much it hurts let him let him text her or call W he will see it himself and he himself will decide my d9 honestly doesn't want to even say hi to W because for a good 6 months my d9 called her left messages of her begging W to call her saying mommy I miss you and as much I cried hearing her on the phone I let d9 figure it out on her own oneday my little girl said I dont care about W she is mean mom and selfish and all I did was stfu and listen to my daugther vent and held her when she needed hugs that's all we as there superhero can do. So just remember to tell your son am here when you wanna vent or cry. Just be there. Keep being his superhero.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9