Apothem, Hello, read some of your stitch it breaks my heart as she ghosting your son unfortunately some of them do some of the WAW take it out on the kids. My W did at first I was her unhappiness then she went in to saying I force the kids on her which we adopted together. My therapist thinks is another way for our W to hurt us. My W knows my children's are my weakness as any parents out here. So of course W uses mt s9 to control me and literally abandoned the 2 youngest. Things got bad to the point W yelled to kids I never wanted ya. All I can say is protect your son and let him know he hasn't done anything reassure him is not him. Take him to therapy because our kids already have abandonment issue from biological mom now there other mom left them too now they think they are bas kidd thank God I listen to my mom took them to therapy and she was right my children's thinks W left because of them they hate themselves but we been working on it and there confidence is coming back and they are smiling again. We as LBS loose focus on everything and can't see that are kid's are hurting more than we are. So hang close to your son he will become your Bestfriend and you will become his super hero because I know I became Super Dama. And my kids are my best friend and wouldn't have it no other way.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9