Newbie In Need Of Guidance #2

[rminer]

IMHO, I think what you really mean, is that she'll be upset that you didn't fight for the M, by stopping her in her tracks.

Yes, this is what I was trying to say.

I know this must be very difficult for you. The whole thing must seem bizzarr. You never dreamed this could be your W, right? I never dreamed it could be me, either. The better educated you are about the wayward mindset, the better you will be equipped to deal with it more successfully.

This is NOT my W. She is a completely different person now, and I can't see how the woman I knew turned in to what she is now.

BTW, I have a few threads on the subject of the WW's mindset, if you are interested. It might give you a little insight from the WW point of view.

I have read them all, and it has helped, but I obviously have not fully grasped it.