My husband wants a divorce but is talking about getting re-married someday. I was researching this phenomenon of getting re-married to the same person (not that I'm planning to take him back after what he's done). Apparently a good 40% regret their divorce and something like 5% get re-married. I have no idea where I heard those statistics and I'm sure they're not accurate, but I guess you could try to keep re-connecting after divorce and see if a new relationship could be started.