You've done it again Maika. Just when I was losing hope you have come up trumps! There's gold in your reply and definitely in that thread you linked to. TxHubby's turnaround is inspiring!

I'm 11 weeks into this and only now getting my head around the detachment I need to do. I like the onion reference in that thread, I'm on the first layer.

Yesterday I decided to take off my wedding ring. W had taken hers off weeks ago, and wearing mine was a constant reminder.

I'm also getting more consistent at working out and getting closer to my PBs before all this. I took the boys swimming too, which was really nice.

I hear you on the house servant thing, that is something I'm working on.

Married 9, Together 16
M:39, W:41, S:11, S:7
BD: 12/3/2017
In house sep: 1/7/2018
EA: March 2017 (ongoing), PA: Yes
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