Happy Valentine's Day everyone! I know some may be resentful about this day. But I just spent it with my kids and enjoyed seeing all my couple friends post about their spouses. It was nice to see.
Things are at a standstill here. STBXH won't talk at all about the separation. I asked to sit down to discuss all the details. Like custody. What weeks in the summer does he want? Who will be responsible for making the drs appts, taking the kids to drs appts etc. all these little details that need to be discussed so we don't waste money doing it with our lawyers. Or a mediator. He refuses too. He keeps putting me off. I asked him very politely when he could manage the time to come get his stuff from the house. He said he's not coming to get it. I can throw it out. I know for a fact that's not legal lol. So now I have to pay my lawyer to make up a registered letter giving him an end date to come and get his stuff. I asked him for us to be both adults about this and get this sorted out so it's not hanging over our heads anymore. And he just won't. On top of this our D13 is having issues with missing school. And he isn't helping in any way to deal with it. It has been me calling the therapist, taking her to the dr for a checkup etc. I do all the running around for the kids. And honestly I'm getting tired of his mid life crisis lifestyle. I just found out he's making a huge purchase of a fancy motorbike. Please. I wonder if he will get a hair piece next lol. It's just frustrating to be the one to hold things together. And be the one that isn't sticking their head in the sand.
