Then came the weird logic. When I told her I didn't want her to uninstall it because singing on it made her happy, she said: "It doesn't matter."
I said what doesn't matter? She said "Whether I have it installed or not."
Huh? I told her that didn't make sense to which she said "nothing makes sense".
Anyone got any thoughts on this?
My take is she is telling you that she is unhappy. She's realizing the app was a band-aid for the unhappiness. While it was an escape, it wasn't fixing it. This is fairly typical WAS script but she is more than likely going to assign 99% blame for her unhappiness on the most convenient target which is YOU. Anything you say or do will just reinforce her belief that you are controlling, manipulative and making her suffer. This is why DB'ing is so important. If you remove pressure from her and detach from her then eventually she'll realize you are not the problem. But if you keep telling her how to fix her problems then she'll think YOU are the problem.
Yes you are right. I am the problem in her mind.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
