I called her with two suggestions related to the offending apps:

1) Leave her phone unlocked.
2) Limit the amount of time she spends on the singing app (she usually spends 5-7 hours while I am at work and D is at school).

She got defensive. Said she felt like a 14 year-old. And she was uninstalling the app.

Then came the weird logic. When I told her I didn't want her to uninstall it because singing on it made her happy, she said: "It doesn't matter."

I said what doesn't matter? She said "Whether I have it installed or not."

Huh? I told her that didn't make sense to which she said "nothing makes sense".

Anyone got any thoughts on this?


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018