she definitely could have been more gracious... i do not think you are being unreasonable in not wanting to do a big fat switch of the schedule you two agreed on in Mediation... you were gracious in offering to switch as needed... i doubt you will be asking her for favors in the near future, so i would not worry about that... but if you were of the spiteful ilk, she could have just cut off her nose to spite her face by threatening to not being open to switching with you should you ask for it... with that attitude, you could refuse to switch with her as needed... but i don't think you are of the spiteful ilk... you are reasonable... keep on keepin-on, Holding...