Sooooo....

What IS your plan for yourself in the future ??

And I know that you said that you are "taking the pressure off" of her..



Are you doing it to induce a reaction from her ??

Or because you are seriously tired of her bulllsiht and you are ready to just live your life...

???

What if you were to "just be" for a while...

Focus on you, and just lived as if everything was fine ??

Because you know what Gordie ?

Everything WILL be just fine..

Whether you remained married or not, YOU will be just fine...


Do YOU want to be defined, as a Man, by your current situation and struggles ???

Do you wanna be sitting at the retirement home in 10 ? years , having other old peeps tell the newbs....

Thats just Gordie. He is still angry over his Divorce a few years ago...

OR...


You still have some major issues that YOU haven't addressed within yourself...

Why not take this time, work through them, and THEN see whats on the other side ??

You cannot lead from the back of the pack buddy....