Chris, I get the impression she's asking for your blessing to be able to move on with her life. She's having a hard time with her decision, and she's feeling guilty. But she has not hit the point where she WANTS to save the M.
I agree with LH that this is a good time to examine what your life with her will be like.
Our ego wants to "win", and winning in this situation is restoring the M. Our heart wants the comfort of the old M. Sometimes these two things blind us to a different path that may ultimately be better.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
