I am going to give you my opinion and you can take it for what it's worth. Consider yourself lucky that you are going through this now and not 15 years down the road when you have a family. Your W has some issues that she needs to work out and if they are not tended to you will be in for a long a painful journey.
Many of the people on here including myself are dealing with spouses having identity crisis in there mid to late forties. IMO if she is having this at 28 she is dealing with deeper issues or just giving you a line of BS.
Again, I know it is hard but you should really consider taking this opportunity to walk away. There are plenty of normal women your age that would be grateful to have a guy like you.
