Fighting my way out of the dark - Part 8

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Hello Holding.

I have glanced through your journey and I see some things that I identify with from the travels in my own journey.

I am pleased that you found the Stockdale Paradox an intrigueing concept. I would be interested to hear what you found interesting and what wisdom you may glean and put into practice.

You are receiving much sound advice for working with your children.
Be the rock that they need. Avoid letting your situation cloud your perceptions of decisions and actions that you should take...and above all seek outside perceptions so you do not perceive all that they do or feel is because of the separation and D.
Looking back i recall so much doom and gloom being preached about how children will be ruined simply because of a D...I encourage that you do not accept that as a foretold inevitable outcome...
Self fulfilling prophecies come when one accepts future telling...

I pray that you have the strength and wisdom to take each day and find peace and courage to make your future what you choose it to be. Gather wisdom from others that have traveled further downthe road, but always apply the wisdom in the manner that you feel confident about and learn from mistakes that you may make.


You have a tribe that can support you here. Lean on them until you can stand on your own.

Let me know if I can ever be of service for you as your push forward.

My prayers are with you and your family.
Be well.