Vapo, it's not OM I object to (well... maybe a little). Honestly, at this point, if he "goes away" then D will lose something, and I hate that for her. No, what I object to is having him thrown in my face. Who the hell sends pictures home with their kid of their "other family?" D has two pictures of her, her mom, and I in her room, and I'm ok with those even if I don't like seeing them. Having pictures of him around my house really [censored], though. I guess XW wants me to either tell D she can't have it and cause problems that way, or just enjoy me having to see that? Either way, another no win situation.
V, I've had an online calendar going for almost a year now. XW objects to it (says it's not what the judge said, but it IS the interim parenting plan). She's never once added anything to it or changed anything in it as far as I know.
As far as engaging... I was serious in what I said. We had plans, but they had a good chance of falling through (Girl Scouts were going to do a movie night, and they were aiming for a weekend that I had D. It was 50/50 on whether or not we'd go). If XW wants to take D to some event, and I don't already have plans, I'd cheerfully swap weekends. V, "just saying yes" could have made me cancel plans, and that's BS too! So it's another no-win situation.
This f---ing [censored].
Kept my word. Texted XW last night: Our plans for Saturday are cancelled. I am willing to swap weekends so you can take her to the disney thing
XW: The only tickets left are in the very tip top very back. I will not do that to her. It isn't on ice so they are in the very front like a concert. I could have got some the other day in the middle up front but that's in the past now.
