Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts

[reframe]

So, I think this IS a positive thing. But it's still slightly terrifying.
W has been more friendly, and sharing more day to day with me.

We had a frustrating experience with a late night, and dinner last night, and she didn't lash out at me and handled things much better.

She's excited about getting a car, and says it feels empowering that she'll own something of her own. She's also asked me to come test drive cars with her, and is generally acting more like a friend, and including me more.

I realize that my not trying to interfere (And actually facilitating her leaving if she wants to) is probably a good thing, since I'm removing pressure and not trying to control her. I'm showing her that I won't stand in her way, but I can't shake the fear that I just moved our timeline forward, which isn't what I want to do.

I'm going out on my own this evening, and she'll be seeing her individual therapist tomorrow. She'll probably be discussing if she's willing to attempt to save things then, which makes this all kinda terrifying as well. I'm second guessing myself and wondering if our discussions the other day about not being in limbo are applying pressure I didn't want to apply.

I know that I need to GAL and detach a bit. I know that I need to let her go and see where this all shakes up...