Thanks Vanilla and NicoleR! I am doing my best to not get overly excited. I still assume we are heading for divorce as my W is the type that makes up her mind and sticks with it. However, prolonged improvements might let her reconsider. Time will tell. I've skimmed through Petri and hoosjim and a few others, including blu. Glad to see positive progress, and also growth even without R progress. I will check back in if there are developments, and I will get back into commenting as soon as I have head space. Probably another week or two before work eases again.


Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s
M:11 T:13
S, D, both 7-10
BD : 11/2017
Separation : 1/18