H....the only other thing that is weird about all this is the R between my W and I. Totally amicable, no hard feelings on either side, she knows I have her best interests in mind, knows that I am not trying to take advantage, etc. She has trusted every financial number I have provided to her and has agreed to everything I have suggested.
The part that makes me sad is that we are set up so perfectly to work on this but she wants no part of it. That to me is so frustrating and tragic.
