Over the last few weeks, as I've been going to IC, reading DR, and various other books and websites, I've started thinking about things.
I don't think that I did the emotional and affectionate turnaround when our first child was born that he thinks I did. Sure, I did stop expressing a lot, but maybe part of what he felt (feels) is that he wasn't getting all the attention/affection anymore (it was going to the new baby, and subsequently the other children). Therefore I shut everything off to him?
