Steve, reluctantly moving back towards the marriage? Sounds more like a spoiled teenager who just got caught doing something she wasn’t supposed to do—but really has no remorse about what she has done or plans to change except to cover it up better.
Gordie you are right. She has stated that she is remorseful she got caught more than being remorseful for her actions.
Sunday morning we had a discussion about her need to flirt and to reach out to guys on the game and karaoke apps that she frequents. She said admitted she had a problem, and when I suggested she just play the games and sing without the social interaction she said she wouldn't enjoy it as much.
Yesterday she was depressed all day. Very sad, withdrawn, and uncommunicative. She finally said she had sung one last song on the karaoke app, and that she had uninstalled the app and the 2 games that she messaged people on.
Obviously there are more ways she can remain in contact, especially with this other guy, but she seems to be trying to make changes. Of course, I have major trust issues now so I am still leery of all of this.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
