I'll open this up now. W said from early on that no matter how this ends she doesn't want to live in the house anymore(and she said the same about a week ago). She hates it and gets anxious in it. First the idea was for me to take the house for myself. But I can't afford it. She doesn't want it nor can she afford it. So the house goes for sale. Or do you think that I should just keep this arrangement going on until the end of times?


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.