It hurts me that she has had this A for months. You all told me but I was in denial. Deep inside I knew it. What to do now? I still want her back. I'll post what she has said about the A and our MR a little later.

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.