RE bedwetting. No one wets the bed in their sleep. Children are awake when they pee. This is a fact.
Wuith regards to OM, I think there is really little you can do unless he is a convicted felon. I know it [censored] big time, perhaps you could talk to your lawyer if there is anything you can do about it.
Why do you engage your W? Frankly I see how she could be pissed off. Why couldn't you just say sorry W, we have planes and cut it of right there and then? Why say tentative? I believe you that the plans were tentative, but with the EXs, ther perceive any and all indecisions to be vindicitve and petty attempts to piss them off. So it is best to cut out all ambiguity. Think white and black. Eliminate grays.
